Nigeria's feminine speaking drummer, Ara and her ex-hubby went their separate methods three years after getting married- their marriage did not work out.
Her then husband maltreated her, and he or she later found he had one other marriage apart theirs. She is due to this fact afraid to re-marry. Here's what she mentioned:
"I've somebody I've a powerful feeling for however I guess my worry of dedication has saved me from going additional. I'm going by means of counseling now, however I'm afraid to dwell with a person once more. I wish to love once more, I wish to have extra youngsters however my worry continues to be there."
"My marriage did not pack up due to one other girl. No, it's a lot deeper than that for me. I imagine a person is able to sharing his affection. After all, most of us come from a polygamous setting. Having multiple spouse doesn't cease you from being pleased; the tendency of being violent won't even be there."
"It has not been simple. But I do not wish to make one other mistake then individuals will say 'she's the one which has the issue'. I wish to get married however I'm being cautious. I wish to love once more, share and care however I've to watch out."
"There's no age you can not discover love. For now, I'm in a relationship."